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Your questions about relationship advice

Thursday, January 20th, 2011 at 6:05 pm  
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Helen asks…

relationship Advice!!!?

so i had a boyfriend for about 3 weeks. No secret.
Today, we had a fight cause i wouldn’t tell him what i was whispering into my friends ear(just a girl friend).
He just gets up, says, “Fine. Dont tell me.”
then walks a few blocks to his house till my friends caught up to him and convinces him to come back. i was outside just chilling, till i see my 2 best friends talking and laughing with him.
I was mad so i didn’t talk to him at all for hours. He didn’t say a word to me also.

Now, I dont know what i should do. I do want to end our relationship before something like this happens again, or talk to him tomorrow when i see him at school and work things out. I mean you DO learn from your mistakes. But hes just so rude.
Any advice…

linda answers:

how old are you? if you’re considering ending a relationship over this shiit then you must be pretty young
anyways see him at school, work things out, say sorry or ask him to apologize and live happily ever after or whatever

Maria asks…

What is the best piece of relationship advice you can give to someone?

This is just a fun question. If there was one piece of relationship advice you could share with someone, regardless of the situation that they are in, what would it me?

Mine would be that if you are thinking of ending a relationship, and you can’t see yourself breathing a sigh of relief and being happy over it all being over, there might be something left there to fight for.

linda answers:

A piece of advice? “Stay single in the first place. Relationships are SO not worth it/overrated”.

Lisa asks…

Advice needed! How do you tell how fast to pace a relationship?

I know people say that it is all up to you, that you should do what you feel comfortable with. However, parents, peers, religion, and even hormones play a role in how fast to pace a relationship. With all those contributing factors, how do you tell what you SHOULD feel comfortable with? Please, any websites that help with relationship advice for young adults, and/or personal opinion and experience would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

linda answers:

You should check out a new site I found:

adviceguru4u.webs.com

It’s an advice site, where you can ask advice about anything.
The Advice Guru is very good, and the site is worth checking out. The Advice Guru can help you with your situation. Hope this helps!

Paul asks…

Relationship ADvice?

Ok i am dating this wonderful women who i met last year in class. We have been dating for 1 year and 2 months. I found out she likes this other guy? How should i confront her about this? should i be worried about htis? is this a normal thing? Will this affect our Relationship?

linda answers:

It’s normal for women to look at other guys and find them attractive- just like men do with other women. But if she actually wants to be with another guy or really likes him than something is wrong. It will end up affecting your relationship because she likes something about this other guy that you must not have. She will always compare you to him in her head. I’m not trying to sound mean- but if she likes another guy than she probably wants to try new things- as in new men. I would suggest that you find out if she likes him as a friend or as someone she could date. If you didn’t hear it from her- it may just be a rumor. Ask her and than make a decision if you want to be with someone that wants to be with other guys. Good luck!

Ken asks…

Relationship ADVICE!!?

I dated a guy and we dated for about and year and were totally extremely in love. But at the beginning of this year we had a mutual break up. A few weeks later I had a new boyfriend (I know this makes me sound kind of like a slut but I liked this guy for awhile and I thought I was over the other guy). Both of these guys are best friends by the way. Anyhow, now I’ve been going out with this guy for about 3 months. But I feel so different! I don’t like how I am feeling about this relationship I like him so much but it just isn’t the same as my last relationship and I am missing my ex- boyfriend even more. My ex-boyfriend now is trying to have a relationship with one of my best friends and it seems like he is purposely flaunting it in my face. I think he still has feelings for me because he always asks about my new relationship and asks how far we have gone, he throws the girl he likes in my face and today he just asked me to kiss him. I don’t know inside guys brains but he acts like he likes me. I just don’t want to get hurt again and the guy I am dating I like him so much! But I just miss my ex so much and the memories we had together. What should I do?

I could…
A.) Stay with my boyfriend now and act like everything is perfect
B.)Tell my boyfriend I still have feelings for my ex but I want to be with him still.
C.)Tell him I can’t be with him anymore, and tell my ex how I feel.
D.)You tell me!

linda answers:

You’re are no married to either one of these guys, you should be honest to your current boyfriend and let him know you still have feelings for you ex-boyfriend, don’t be and such a rush of having to being tried down to one person, or dating on person, because if you give all of yourself to your current boyfriend and he brakes up with you, you will be stuck because you didn’t leave your options open, If your current boyfriend is mature than he would understand, where you are coming from, guys had been playing the field for years, why not do the same. do tie yourself down so fast, get to know this new guy more instead of committing to be with him, and it doesn’t make you sound like a slut, you have the right to evaluate who you want to be with, just as guys do, we really need to let go of the stereotype, that women are sluts if they choose to date more than one man, who cares what people thing, do what makes you happy, do you!.

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How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

Sunday, February 28th, 2010 at 1:03 pm  
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Do you lie awake at night asking yourself over and over “how to get my ex boyfriend back“?  Perhaps you broke up over something relatively silly and now realize that he was the love of your life.

Did he break up with you?  Or did you finish the relationship but now regret it?  If you were together for a long time, it is easy to take a good relationship for granted.  We often don’t realize what we have until it is gone.

If you are the only one of your friends in a long term relationship, you may have felt that you were missing out on the fun times and so wanted to be single.  Or maybe the sexual side of your relationship had settled down and you felt a greater attraction to the cute bartender at your local club.

It is hard to keep the romance going in a relationship and often we forget what first attracted us to the men in our lives.   There is also the factor that someone elses life is always more interesting.  Why is it that the grass is always greener on the other side?  You should never forget that appearances are deceptive and your beautiful next door neighbor’s smile might be hiding a nightmare existence.

So now you have realized that the cute single guy is on his own for a reason and you want your ex boyfriend back.  You are going to have to work hard to gain his trust again. After all, you probably hurt him quite badly by dumping him particularly if there was no real reason why other than you were bored.

Call him and ask him out to dinner.  Wear his favorite clothes and perfume.  In short, make a huge effort to remind him why he fell for you.  Apologize for your behavior. Blame your hormones, your job, stress or your boss but do not put any of the blame on him.  This is not the time to list out all the reasons why you were bored or fed up.  You want to build his self esteem not destroy him.

Ask for a second chance.  Remind him of all the great times you enjoyed together.  Tell him that your time apart has made you realize that he is the only man you are interested in. Unless you know he wants marriage and kids, don’t go too heavy on this tactic.  Keep it light.  Stroke his ego by letting him know how much you want him.  Reassure him that you are 100% sure that this is what you want.

You have to be prepared to hear some home truths on what he thinks of your behavior.  He will need answers to his questions and will probably need to let off some steam.  Do not retaliate or get involved in trading insults.  Listen to what he has to say!

After all if you want to know the answer to how to get my ex boyfriend back, you may just have to ask him.