How can I do something for fun while waiting for divorce paper to come through?

This is entering my five months of bein’ seprated by soon-2-be ex husband and gettin’ better each time dealin’. I am wondering since my soon-2-be husband (which he is ninthteen by now) and my lawyer was tellin’ me that I can do whatever I want to do, he also including dating as well. So can you give me some advice or any thoughts?

Thanks
Really I am older than 19… I am seven years older than he is… ***was my frist love***
I know that… That is why I am tryin’ to explain to that **can I say a youngun** that… Being married is a long term commitment and I loved him and thought we were *can I say* “Meant to be” for each other…

So now I know it is a miskate and a lesson for me to learn from… Now since he left me it made me realize that it can hurt even worst…. Now I just want to have fun and try to move on until something else better comes along…

I need some dating advice please…?

I’ve asked out and been rejected by 13 girls this past half year… I planned on the 14th girl to be the last one I ask out, if it didn’t work out I just planned on not dating. So I meet this girl and really start crushing on her. I ask her out she accepts, we have a lot in common. I ask her to dinner and we have a good time and she kisses me. After a few more dates (which included holding hands and kissing) I ask her where we stood, she says she didn’t want to be in a realationship and only wanted to date. Saying that realationships were to stressing during tge school time ( which I didn’t really understand the difference, but I agreed, then she kissed me again)
Ever since then I’ve tried to text her every other day or so to see how her day was going (to show I was thinking of her/ cared) and I noticed that as time went on I got less detailed responses till I just started getting “I’m fine” responses that could not be expanded on. Now we’ve been dating for about a month and gone on maybe 4 or 5 dates. Last week she was too busy to hang out with me and had stuff to do, understandable. This week we had a date planned for Monday she cancelled saying she was just too tired and stressed and resheduled for Thursday.then she cancels completly tonight.

Today in class I was talking with her and say that next week is our one month aniversary of us dating. She pulls me outside and procceds to tell me that she had been so upity this last week because her grandmother passed last night and the funeral was on Friday. Also that this was getting to “realationship-y” , stuff like going out on a spisific day for an aniversary seemed to much like a realationship (I didn’t think so, I thought it what people who dated for a while like that did). I ask her if she means she just wanted me to back off and she says yeah. She likes “hanging out ” (I noticed she didn’t say dating) with me and would like to keep doing that. I ask her what I was doing that I should back up on, but she couldn’t really answer, saying she’s dated before and that i’m still learning or something along those lines. I told her to call me whenever she wanted to hang out again. Btw I hate the term…”hanging out”. Every time I ask a girl out on a date or show her I like her… BAM “Oh! You like me, I thought we were just hanging out” and it never goes well from there.

So that’s it… I don’t really know what to do… I might break up with her( I mean stop going out with her, can’t break up unless you’re in a realationship, stupid me) I know if I keep being around her my feelings will just increase and It could turn into love (it happened before) and it will really. Really hurt if she says she just wants to e friends.but I know for sure I won’t be texting or calling her again. She said she would call me, but experience and having feelings broken many times tells me she won’t. (every girl of the 13 has told me this, to this day, none of them have called me)

I’m so confused, this is the closest i’ve been in to anything even coming close to a realationship or just being more than friends with a girl. I don’t know what to do

Ladies only please: serious dating advice needed for a love-shy guy?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love-shy – this essentially describes my current situation with women. At age 30 and despite many professional successes and being told I’m a very nice and caring person by many people, I have never had a g/f or been in a relationship (ever).

To try to fix the relationship situation, and b/c repeated efforts at online dating just didn’t work for me, I signed up for a local brick-and-mortar matchmaking service that tries to match people looking for serious and long-term relationships, with the ultimate goal of matching people with persons that would make good potential partners for an eventual married relationship. Criteria used to match are based on compatibility, numerous scientific personality assessments, and other character assessments. I am guaranteed nearly 30 unique matches for potential dates, which the agency coordinates.

So the first match arrived by postal mail today, with the a summary of the match’s interests, profile, and phone number included. To set up the actual date, I have to call the match to ask her out and take it from there to see how things go. However, given the approach being used and my inexperience with relationships, what would you recommend actually talking about with the match on the first phone call? Also any recommendations on what would be a good first date idea? Thanks!

Dating Advice- should I get in contact?

Ok I met this guy on the internet and we have chatted and text everyday for 2 weeks now. He lives about 45 minutes away from me. separated with 3 children, currently living with family till finds somewhere of their own. I asked him out for a drink last week but as he has his children it was too short notice. We have lots of things in common including classical music, so I thought he may like to see a concert as we had chatted about it and knew we definitely wanted to meet each other. Since asking last Thursday I have not a reply to my invitation but have still continued to chat, however yesterday I have had no texts or contact at all, nor today so far.
Should I take this as ominous? as we have been in contact every day so far. I am over reacting. Should I get in contact? I did send a text yesterday saying that I hoped everything was OK but no reply?
Advice on these would be great- I don’t want to seem desperate as I really would like to meet him, but I also don’t want to be wasting my time and making a fool out of myself.

Need advice on dating a seperated man that still needs a divorce?

I have been dating a married but seperated man for about a year and a half. He also has 2 kids, 5 and 2. I’ve had nothing but stress in this relationship and he is extremely lazy. he lets everything in his life go including his car, has a crappy job and can barely afford to take care of his kids. He has had to move back in with his mother. Can this relationship really work or am i wasting my time?