There are a lot of things that should be discussed at some point, and they become even more important as the two of you get more serious about each other. While the idea that “opposites attract” is popular, the truth is that the more a couple has in common, the more likely they are to stay together. But the only way to find out how he feels about the bigger issues is to ask him. With that in mind, here are some topics for serious questions to ask your boyfriend.

1. What are each of your roles within the relationship? This is an excellent question to ask as it can reveal how each of you were brought up, how you see things now, and what your future may be like. Just the idea of “roles” is repulsive to some people, while others think they should be well-defined. That doesn’t mean they are right or wrong, but it is better to know how he feels about things in this regard. You won’t agree on everything, and when this happens you need to decide if you will be able to get past the differences.

2. How will you handle money? It is often said that disagreements about money is one of the leading causes of divorce. Whether that’s true or not, it’s a good idea to work this out sooner rather than later. Will you pool all of your money and pay bills and buy things with it? Will you pool some of your money? None of it? Who will pay bills? Will you have separate bank accounts? Are either of you in debt now? These are only a few of the money-related questions you should ask before you get too deep into your relationship.

3. Will you have children? You may not have to ask this question in the earliest stages of the relationship, but it is something that will eventually need to be discussed. If you both want kids, are you both able to have them? Is adoption an option? How many children do you want? How soon do you want them?

This list isn’t meant to cover everything you should talk about, but it does cover the bigger issues, and can open the door for a deeper discussion. These serious questions to ask your boyfriend may not always be the easiest to discuss, but they are vital if you want the relationship to move forward.

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If the two of you recently broke up the thing that you feel most like doing is the one thing you absolutely should never do: call him (text him, IM him, etc. ) This is especially important if he broke up with you. If you start acting like some sort of crazy stalker lady, at worst you’re going to end up with a restraining order against you and at best he’ll only think of you as his ‘sure thing, back up plan’.  Neither of those are terrific options. Give him space.

That doesn’t mean that you have to go out and find another guy or hide under your bed.  While you are giving your ex time, take some time for you.  I’m sure that there are things that you wanted to do or liked to do that got put on the back burner while the two of you were together. Now is the time to remember those things and start doing them again.

Most men prefer a woman who is self sufficient and confidant.  Those are probably traits you had at first, it’s time to re introduce yourself to those traits and start having fun and doing all the things you meant to do or used to do. Your ex will hear about it through the grapevine and he will be intrigued.  You might just find that he is calling you, by resorting to the woman you used to be you are reminding him of the woman he fell in love with.  Plus, by keeping yourself busy you aren’t allowing yourself time to wallow and obsess.

The same principle can hold true if you and your guy are still together, but just not feeling the love.  Don’t make a big issue out of it, just start doing some of the things that you were planning on doing but somehow got sidetracked when you and your guy got together.  Whatever it was, whether it was going back to school, learning to cook, taking a trip, etc.  This will remind both of you of the woman you used to be. That can help him remember the love he had for you and it can remind you of the person you used to be and make positive changes to be that woman again.

The question: how can I get my boyfriend to love me again, can seem so sad and hopeless. But it doesn’t have to be.  There are many things that you can do, many of which are much easier than you may have thought possible, that can help you and your boyfriend rekindle the love the two of you had before.

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This is not necessarily an easy thing to do. Most of us won’t want to ask these questions, relationship problems or not. This is because the natural human reaction to things is to try and avoid the problem as much as possible.

But relationship problems will not fix themselves. You need to make the effort to fix them, not wait for your ex to magically come around. You are the one who has realized there is a problem, and this means that you have to be the one to do the work to fix it. Whether you like it or not, it’s become your responsibility.

Which brings us to the questions. Relationship questions are not easy to ask, but the answers will be worthwhile. This is the information you need to do the work that will bring you back to having a healthy relationship with your girlfriend or boyfriend, husband or wife.

Question One: What Do You Want?

This is a question you need to ask yourself and your significant other. You need to ask yourself because you need to be able to know and articulate what it is you want from your relationship. You need to ask them so that you know that the things you want from the relationship are, if not the same, then at least compatible.

Question Two: What Were Our Best Times?

This is another question designed to get you looking at how the two of you view your relationship. If you both view different times in your relationship as the best times, this will give you a very strong indication of where things went wrong, which is the point of these questions. Relationship is based on knowing what these questions will tell you.

Question Three: What Don’t You Like?

Again, this is a question both of you need to ask. This is an area where it is crucial that you don’t assign blame or allow your emotions to be hurt. You need to take a full inventory of where you stand and knowing what it bothering both of you is essential.

Question Four: Where are we Heading?

The point of this is question is to see where you both think the relationship should and where it will go. Without knowing this, you won’t know how bad the relationship is. If your partner thinks that the relationship is doomed to failure, this is information you need to know.

The point of doing all this is to find the true answers to these questions. Relationship rescue will be much easier when you have this information, because it will give a roadmap of the problems you need to resolve to have a stronger relationship. This is only the beginning, and you should seek out and find the information that will allow you to overcome these problems.

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